If your loved one really wants to communicate with you, they will do so by trying to get your attention with favorite or private words or sayings that only you know. They try to make it clear that it is them. But communicating with your loved one can be a two way street where you can initiate communication with them. The only thing required is a sitting of quiet and undisturbed time. Devote a half hour where you can sit undisturbed quietly. You can have with you a photo or something special to honor their memory. Then sit and breathe quietly to quiet your mind. Once you feel at peace, invite your loved one in. Allow yourself to feel their energy. You might feel a tingle or a chill. Wait until you get some kind of sign that they are with you. Then begin a dialogue. Ask a question, and wait for a response quietly. Note the images and emotions you receive, and trust them. That is how spirit communicates. With practice, you can become very good at this and actually discern their messages from your thoughts.
